Dear whomever, I am not going to apologize about the things I have done. Telling her how I felt was something I personally need to do for myself. This is a petty teenage drama. It happens all the time, and I don’t understand why parents feel the need to get involved when I have not intentionally insulted her (by insulted I mean swore), called her a bitch or anything. I do not think these things about her. Yet Kate has called me a hoe, called me a bitch and swore numerous times at me. If anything, I was insulted more. Yes I “stole” (and let me point out that she has given me these passwords several times, so technically I didn’t do anything wrong ) the passwords and did change the password. Again the reason I did this is because I am a teenager. Not one person on this earth can say they haven’t done hurtful things to another person as a teenager.
You can make a NEW tumblr and you can make a NEW email. You can still use facebook or any other account with firstname.lastname@example.org it doesn’t matter if you have access to your tumblr or email. Me changing the passwords should not be blown out of proportions.
If the point of calling my Mom was to threaten me, or to get me punished you are mistaken. a) I have told my Mom about the things I did and she is not angry with me. (I am surprised Kate has forgotten about the fact my Mom is easy going and has not grounded me since I was about 11) b) My mom will defend me and will take my side, there is no need to escalate it to a fight between parents. I can take care of my own problems without a parent present.
Saying that Kate didn’t do anything to me is wrong. This message: (http://corkle.tumblr.com/post/5496505492/wow-didnt-think-all-of-the-shit-people-were-talking) was not from me and any message that doesn’t have my name on it isn’t from me. (I also think that this person was 100% out of line calling her names such as trashy.) But Kate brought up MY name multiple times in her reply to it. The biggest reason I got involved in all this mess is because I was brought into it by Kate. My name shouldn’t have been mentioned in that message and it was unnecessary to bring me into something that was not done by me. I felt that Kate was being disrespectful towards me by saying that I have acted like a bad friend for not wanting to be involved with a person who does drugs. I am not going to be brought down with her.I felt the need to defend myself and that is why I sent the original message (the one that starts with first and foremost). Once Kate replied to my message I felt even more insulted with the fact she called me a bitch. I felt angry and I made the rash decision of changing the passwords. However I am not going to apologize to Kate, I feel regret but only because I have made myself look like a complete moron. Again I feel no regret sending the message about how I feel. That is something that I felt and still feel needed to be said. This entire thing also shouldn’t be pinpointed on me. Only 2 out of 8 messages were from me and the only reason it is being pinpointed on me is because I’m the only person who confessed my identity.
To be 100% honest I think that this drama is the least of your worries, Kate is going down a dangerous path, anyone can see that. Drugs, sex, partying, even self-harming herself to make herself skinnier. Not eating and making yourself throw up is completely bad for your mental health and physical health. Throwing up harms your throat and body in huge ways and I think these are MAJOR MAJOR self-image problems that a beautiful girl like Kate shouldn’t have. I’m not even going to go into the facts about what drugs does. The message I sent was not just about defending myself, it was also to help her. Not insult her. I wish the friend I had was not doing this to herself.
As soon as you have read this message I will delete this tumblr. I think that this is the best course of action for all of us. Neither of us will have to harass each other for passwords and whatnot. Keep in mind you can always make a new tumblr and not give anybody the URL or password, so something like this will never happen again. I hope that this resolves all issues and that this will end all this nonsense.